"Meeting Those 7 Platinum Words !"

Whenever I find key to success some idiot change the lock.Hain na? The same old answer to all the newer failures of our life. We have extended a special courtesy to the failure but never to success because the road to success is too long and the dim light on the highway of success frequently take off our eyes from the focus of success. Searching to the most searched thing in the world- Success, never ends. What ends is the spirit to search it in the right place with right kind of endeavor with right attitude and never ending determination and the confidence. What really is necessary in whole of the process is the person's unshakable trust on himself which can lead his way to the highest mountain tip, only if REALLY wants to. Different people crave for different TYPE of success and so carving according to that is utmost importance.

I remember a story where a man was searching something under a glowing street light at night and a gentleman approached him with a baffled looks. He said,"Friend, I am observing you since long, have you lost something?" The man looked up and quickly said with a sign of worry," Yes I have lost something and I am searching for it. That gentleman was courteous enough to join him. After around an hour's hunting when nothing was found, the gentleman with a sad look on his face told him,"Sorry brother we couldn't find your thing. But what was that?" The goof replied,"It was my coin that I lost THERE." He pointed to a dark place nearby. Now that gentleman angry and shocked yelled at him,"If it was lost there then why on this earth are you searching it here?''.That person with an irritating grin replied, which would make us all to beat our forehead. He said,"Come on, It's so darkness there, how you want me to search my coin there, here there is light so I came here!" ROFL.

Success comes to those who are too busy looking for it(of course at the right place ;). So friends thats what is the story of many of us. We certainly forget to search our so called success at the right place. Some has to be cued to make them aware of it and some get too lost to get back to the right starting point. And some just strip away from the middle of path when they see so much of darkness ahead. There is no surety of success every time but then no surety of failure as well. So why take it granted. Get Set Go.

Well someone can argue that its all bullshit and there is nothing like this. It's all in the destiny and success happen to those who are already destined irrespective of their toiling the hardest way. For them well yes, you can say that but how do you know that he was destined and you not? If you are so sure of his success then why not yours?, that too when all the ball'S' are in your court. There are always adage attached to someone's success and we convince so sweetly to ourselves about our failure in the name of "fate". Why should you succumb yourself and your trust before you have played all the games and run in all major or minor races of life. This is your life and it's you who will define the pros and cons. Self evaluation is important than anyone poking nose and pulling you down the ladder.

The more you fear the more you get close to the failure. There is always another time but just because we have been deceived by life once, twice or thrice we deplore our own actions. It's because others say that we can't do or laugh at us, we impeccably believe them and succumb. We trust others so much that we forget that we are NOT others. We allow them to decide for us so they do. If you fight for the moon you may reach somewhere amongst stars, right?. The tryst with success is absolutely weird. It doesn't happen with prior appointments, it's like meeting a stranger at a very strange time and strange moment. For someone as old as one of my aunt(45 years) passing 10th board is a success and for someone as big as Ratan Tata making a Nano is a success, different parameters and different aims. It's you who has to set your priorities, define your way and don't let fear rule your head. But one thing, there is something what I term it as"Negative Success"(success for one, the disaster for all) that harms the human race, society and whole civilization and that certainly in any way I wouldn't stamp it as success.

The success comes in bits and pieces but we are so buried under our "that" big target that we forget that it's a big picture puzzle that would give the perfect picturesque when all the bits and pieces are put together But Alas! in this hurly burly we forget to keep those pieces which we mourn afterwards. :) Success is still that old ABC - Ability,Break and Courage. It's not so easy but is it too hard when you have been given all the raw material ditto as given to others by the Almighty. You have it in you. Discover it sooner or later and see how beautiful the journey on the express highway to success becomes. Drive carefully but passionately with your conscience, enjoy the journey, have breaks for good and you will hit it for sure, somewhere amongst the stars! :)